tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3220171139452112708.post1421982963174824147..comments2023-05-27T03:12:54.765-07:00Comments on A Spanking Story: 50 Right Ways to Approach BDSM/TTWD: Second ThoughtsAutumnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10071247926710391470noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3220171139452112708.post-32303375637013573942015-02-18T16:39:10.409-08:002015-02-18T16:39:10.409-08:00Hi Autumn,
Just read through all 4 parts of your ...Hi Autumn, <br />Just read through all 4 parts of your well thought out posts. First off, I agree with everyone else who mentioned you should send this to the media - "50 Instructions on 50_SOG"<br /><br />Hopefully it will do some good here for those new and curious and looking to understand or discover more. <br /><br />As I have mentioned on other blogs discussing FSOG, my concern lies closer to what I believe your overall point/s you are trying to make here vs what some other bloggers seem to be upset about.<br /><br />You may have seen my comments elsewhere, but in short what bothers me most about the FSOG phenomena is a younger set outside of a more stable relationship interest and influence in the book/movie. Jerk off men using this as an excuse to seriously physically hurt and or simply take advantage of young inexperienced women. Men using this as an example that consent isn't necessary and to re-enforce the rationalization that abusing women is ok. That is generally my biggest issue with it.<br />It seems not everyone can easily separate real life from fiction.Enzohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11556688278392257042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3220171139452112708.post-42310611434292653562015-02-17T01:24:54.258-08:002015-02-17T01:24:54.258-08:00Hi Autumn, I can only agree, in second thought mom...Hi Autumn, I can only agree, in second thought moments the most important thing the dominant has to do, is to listen and take the thoughts of the submissive partner seriously. Any negativity should be addressed and actually putting blame on any of the two is a reason to stop and talk everything over again. … And then again. :) I am glad that hubby looks closely and he would always ask if there was any problem, or stop when he notices I cannot cope, instead of continuing when I might be unable to communicate that clearly. <br />I enjoyed your series and the points of how to approach bdsm in a healthy way. Thank you for sharing these awesome thoughts!<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Nina<br />stay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.com