I'm still here! My parents have been visiting for the past several days, which is a situation not conducive to checking up on spanking blogs and writing posts about DD. I hope you all had a wonderful Memorial day weekend with beautiful weather and lots of family and friends.
Although my parents are here, this does not mean my DD relationship with my husband falls to the wayside. It is mostly limited to quiet lectures and taps on my bottom, but he can still address issues with me.
For example, the other day I was looking in the mirror, squeezing my love handles in a disapproving manner. My husband does not like it when I criticize myself in the mirror, and he happened to be walking into the room at the precise moment I was doing this.
I knew what would be coming, had my parents not been in the room across the hall. As it was, I found myself over his lap with my bottom being lightly tapped.
"You are in desperate need of a spanking, young lady," he said. I agreed with him, though I did not voice it out loud.
The tapping drove me nuts. It was torturous. It was like having a warm, delectable dessert sitting right in front of me that I wasn't allowed to taste. The only thing worse than a spanking is an almost spanking.
I received a lecture about criticizing my body, and was given an exercise to list 5 things every day that I like about myself and why.
Then he reinforced his message by quietly making love to me.
Currently surrounded by vanilla family too. The odd tap is it. Very frustrating.
ReplyDeleteI'm terribly negative about my image so we don't have a big mirror in the bedroom. i would find it difficult to compliment my own body!
I'm pretty comfortable with my body, but it depends on the time of month AND whether I've eaten healthy. Unfortunately, when family comes to visit, we tend to eat more delicious things that are not the healthiest.
DeleteAutumn, your husband must be great, because he doesn’t want you to have a negative self-image. I mean, focusing on what you like about yourself is a lovely exercise. If your husband is a little like mine, he will definitely expand the list by his own ideas on what he loves about you.
ReplyDeleteI am so with you, an almost spanking is worse than a spanking when you crave the real thing. That’s hard to endure and so frustrating, well, actually making love quietly can also be a problem, but this is at least a very funny and enjoyable one. I hope you enjoy lots of quiet love and get more than light taps pretty soon.
hugs
Nina
My husband IS great!!
DeleteHi Autumn, bless him, it is hard when there are family around and at least he is still trying. You need to listen to him, nobody is perfect and it really doesn't matter
ReplyDeletelove Jan,xx
Yes, I do need to listen and accept who I am. I do most of the time, but there are days when I struggle. My husband is a great man :)
DeleteGah! I can't even THINK about Dd around my family.....too ...well I just can't!
ReplyDeleteUgh, I know...it's SO awkward!
DeleteHave you attempted quite implements? My HOH's favorite one is the tilt wand from the mini blinds. Pretty quite but can be painful. I've never experienced a tap spanking but it sounds torturous!
ReplyDeleteIt really is torturous. We have not experimented with anything quiet...my husband is not one for implements. I have to coax him into changing it up sometimes--after all, it only benefits his hand to use different implements :)
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