Friday, March 7, 2014

Fantasy Friday: My Husband's Edition

I don't plan on being a regular of Fantasy Fridays, mostly because I don't write stories (yet), but my husband asked me today if I would post about his fantasy, so here goes:

My husband and I used to individually have accounts on Fetlife, but, because of the number of creepy pervs on Fetlife, we developed a lot of trust issues regarding it, deleted our accounts, and haven't looked back since.

But there's one thing to be said about Fetlife:  It's really good if you happen to be looking for someone kinky to hook up with--at least that was my experience from it.  And, until now, we haven't been looking for that (except for one time, when my husband was deployed, and I found someone to spank me...but that's a WHOLE other story).

Despite its tendency to be a magnet for perverted trolls, we are thinking of re-joining Fetlife, which brings me to my husband's fantasy.  His new year's resolution this year was to be more sexually adventurous with me, and I wholeheartedly support that resolution!  It is a huge turn-on for him to imagine another man disciplining and having sex with me while he watches...and my husband would like to finally make this fantasy a reality.

I have mixed feelings about this.  Of course, it's fun to imagine someone strong, handsome, and stern taking me over his lap to spank me and take care of me, but that strong, handsome, stern man has always been my husband!  I have many fantasy spanking scenarios flitting around in my head, and, honestly, most of them involve my husband.

However, there is a part of me that is incredibly excited about finding someone to do this with us.  It has to be someone I don't know--I would be mortified doing this with friends in my vanilla life.  Now all that's left to do is find someone, and I decided I would be more comfortable if it were another couple instead of a single man--a couple who are just like us, not into anything too crazy, but are looking to spice things up a bit.

I have no idea how to go about finding the right couple.  There is a BDSM club in our city, but I'm not sure how I feel about going there.  I'm also not sure if Fetlife has gotten better or worse when it comes to pervy messages from people who can't spell.  Craigslist just seems...scary.  So, fellow bloggers, I know I don't have many readers yet, but I would appreciate any and all assistance from any kinksters out there who may have embarked on a similar quest in the past.

I'm feeling more adventurous already!


  1. He is going to watch someone spank you or have sex with you? Because there are serious health risks, of course, with the latter, even with a condom.

    1. You are absolutely right, which is why I expect this to take a very long time. A trusting relationship will need to be built with another couple, plus doubling up on protections once the time comes. Who knows...maybe we will never find a couple we trust enough to do something like this, but it doesn't hurt to start looking.

  2. That's SO HOT!!! Potentially dangerous, but what isn't?! What are you looking for in the happy couple?

    1. Mu husband thinks so too :) We're looking for a couple like us, people in their 20's or 30's, preferably not too far away (Maryland), into spanking or DD.